boys are insufferable

i think it's an issue that i genuinely don't believe in good (straight) men

like no joke i am so disgustingly distrusting of every single man i know it's scary. not scary for me (#bettersafethansorry) but just overall shocking to most people when they realise im NOT joking when i talk about not trusting boys

that's probably a very unhealthy way of thinking with a lot to unpack but hey it's not hurting anyone and it's certainly not hurting me

that's not to say all boys are inherently evil or that all girls are perfect but i truly believe all boys growing up are conditioned to sexist beliefs to some extent, often not even by choice or by fault of them or their parents, but simply because of the inescapable patriarchy found in every aspect of society. every single boy. and again that's not necessarily their fault and that's our world and it fuckinggggg suuuuucks but im not their mama and it's not my job to teach them rights and wrongs and to not say bigoted horseshit (intentionally or unintentionally) therefore i avoid the burden all together!

odds are that will change as i get older and a fair amount of boys will use their heads for the greater good and actually educate themselves, but im not trynna place all my eggs in one basket especially when the chances of success are still slim

i can acknowledge some boys are nice to look at but when they open their mouths sooner or later they're gonna say some bullshit and i just cannot be fucked doing a background check on every boy im attracted to to see whether or not they believe in basic fucking equity and human rights like no thanks how exhausting

that probably all makes me sound like a massive heinous misandrist bitch but i actually really don't care and id get that title plastered on a t shirt if i could. plus yet again my prejudice isn't hurting anyone when i can crush on really sexy smart girls instead. live laugh love bisexuality #ilovemycountry!